I think I can start after such a long time... Everybody has their own worries that may lead to stress. The reason why you're stressed up is because you really think you cannot make deadlines. From the work point of view, you've been doing work all this while. If you know what you're doing, then you won't feel anything. If not, then its time to look for another job. From the 'wedding' part, I would think that you're just nervous about the whole thing. Talk with your future husband about it. He's dying to help out. That's because you're stressed because you hog everything to do and you're just lost. I would suggest to put everything down on a checklist and start from the top. You can get a list from leading wedding magazines in stores. Then about Family... this is interesting.. it depends... husband, kid(s), mother in law... list goes on... conclusion... life goes on with or without stress and you cannot get rid of it... just sit down and think things over before doing it.